Oddly enough when I told my hetero friends I was bisexual they were respectful and were happy for me admittedly my friends have always been super open and accepting and intuitive. My gay male friends however brushed it off as “oh you just want to fuck everyone and I was like wow. Admittedly I’ve always been sexually let’s use the word adventurous. But when anyone has ever come out to me I didn’t make a huge joke of it. My husband is also bi sexual and I think it’s important to remember that it’s a spectrum maybe you find more attraction to men in the relationship aspect since you married one maybe that’s how life ends up.